Forgiveness is a beautiful thing. Especially when you've already been able to truly forgive in your heart when someone comes asking for forgiveness. It's there all ready to give.
I wonder however, does that person need to be made aware of how much they "made" you suffer until you reached that forgiveness yourself? I recently went through this. I was apologized to and I freely forgave, without pointing out what I went through. It felt good on my end but is it totally fair for the person repenting and working through their own problems to not know the extent of the pain they caused others?
Food for thought. I don't know the answer. I don't think anyone reads this. I've never told anyone it was here, so I don't really expect an answer.
